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Procrastinating on Your Dreams? Failure is Feedback for the Future

Updated: Aug 10, 2023

In the vibrant city of Veridale, there lived an aspiring entrepreneur named Alex. From a young age, Alex dreamed of making a difference in the world through entrepreneurial ventures. Alex thought about this a lot. At times he found himself researching potential business ideas, exploring market trends, and talking about his ideas to others.

Days turned into weeks, weeks into months, and months into years. Alex found himself trapped in a cycle of indecision and doubt in his abilities. The desire to start his own business lingered. But, the fear of venturing into uncharted territory had created an invisible barrier that left him frozen in his shoes—afraid to take risks and pursue his dreams.

If this story feels familiar, it's because it is a common way that fear of failure shows up in our lives.

In the professional realm, fear of failure may prevent you from taking risks or pursuing new opportunities, such as starting your own business or applying for a challenging job. In personal goals, fear of failure can manifest as procrastination or self-doubt, causing you to hesitate in pursuing your passions or dreams.

Overcoming the fear of failure can be challenging, but it is possible with the right mindset and strategies. Here are some ways to think about this differently:

1. I would argue that in the case of our protagonist, Alex, his mission isn't big enough if it can't overcome the side effects of fear that are showing up as procrastination and indecision. With a compelling and meaningful mission or dream lifestyle in mind, you can tap into a deep reservoir of determination and resilience, allowing you to take action.

2. Embrace an experimental mindset and reframe failure as feedback: Adopting an experimental mindset means understanding that every unsuccessful outcome is a learning opportunity. This mindset shift allows us to build skills, test ideas, and exercise grit and determination. Rather than dwelling on negative outcomes, identify areas for improvement, and adjust your approach based on these insights.

When you push past the fear of failure, you can experience a range of positive outcomes that have the potential to transform your life.

Imagine the thrill of starting your own venture, bringing your unique ideas to life, and making a meaningful impact on the world. Envision the satisfaction of standing on stage, sharing your expertise, and inspiring others with your gifts. Picture yourself taking on challenging projects and exceeding even your own expectations.

Think of the deep connections you can cultivate by embracing vulnerability and having honest conversations with clients or partners. Picture the joy of personal growth, the thrill of making a bold career transition, pursuing your passions, and finding true fulfillment in your work.

Now, take a moment to reflect on your own journey. What dreams and aspirations have been held back by the fear of failure? What opportunities have you hesitated to seize?

Today, make a commitment to yourself.

Commit to reframing failure as valuable feedback and using it to guide future success. Commit to taking calculated risks, trusting in your abilities, and embarking on personal and professional transformation.

You have the power within you to own your narrative, rewrite your relationship with failure, and create a future filled with triumph and resilience. Ultimately, fear of failure is merely an illusion, a barrier created in our minds. The only real failure lies in never trying at all.


Hi, I’m Brandi Holder, a brand voice specialist, and business and empowerment coach. I am a copilot for go-getters and solopreneurs seeking fulfillment, impact, and financial freedom.

You can write that book, launch that dream business, achieve financial freedom, or rewrite your history! I can show you how. Work With Me | Brandi Holder


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